The feminist community I lurk at is full of chaps sounding off. A few days ago a chap was telling us how woman-friendly he was and how he wanted women to tick him off every time he displayed insensitivity in his postings. And then another guy blasted him for being all male-centric and me, me, me. I was tempted to join in, but - oh, that's enough already from the people with vagina-envy. Boys, we talk too much. Our place in a feminist community is to sit somewhere near the back and listen!