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Holding A Grudge [Oct. 30th, 2015|11:42 am]
Tony Grist
It's been weeks now since the thing was said- and I've been fuming ever since. Well, off and on. One can't fume all the time without doing oneself an internal injury. I've been thinking of writing something thunderous here- but holding off- because the damage would be incalculable- and now it's getting so I have to prod my memory to remind myself what it was that made me so cross in the first place.

Time to let the whole business drop?

Yes, High time. 

[User Picture]From: matrixmann
2015-10-30 12:57 pm (UTC)

Or sometimes time to take a notepad.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2015-10-30 02:31 pm (UTC)
You write it down and thereby you've externalised it. Then you can move on.
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[User Picture]From: ronyae
2015-10-30 05:11 pm (UTC)
Way to go! Grudgers only hurt themselves.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2015-10-30 05:28 pm (UTC)
That's right.
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[User Picture]From: ideealisme
2015-10-30 06:56 pm (UTC)
Is there any way you can very pointedly have minimal dealings with them, and when you must do, make it clear through looks and silence that they are in the doghouse? Because it sounds like you want to make them very aware that they've screwed up, and you're not a pushover. I don't think a little froideur would be outrageous. And it's better than feeling powerless and fuming.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2015-10-30 07:21 pm (UTC)
It helps that we now live an opposite ends of the country.
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[User Picture]From: davesmusictank
2015-10-30 11:05 pm (UTC)
Well, i would count to ten, but it never works for me.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2015-10-31 08:54 am (UTC)
I've counted to several hundred thousand on this one....
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