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Eric Chadwick, RIP, 18/6/28-23/5/12 [May. 24th, 2012|09:02 am]
Tony Grist
Eric died yesterday afternoon at around ten to three.  
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[User Picture]From: glitzfrau
2012-05-24 08:21 am (UTC)
I am so sorry. </p>

A death at home, peacefully, surrounded by devoted family, is what I would most wish for. You're very admirable for providing so much support in such difficult circumstances.

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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:51 pm (UTC)
Thanks.

Strewth, but I feel tired.
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[User Picture]From: pondhopper
2012-05-24 08:41 am (UTC)
That is sad, especially for Ailz and her mother. I'm so sorry.
He didn't linger...
May he rest in peace.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:51 pm (UTC)
Thanks.
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[User Picture]From: chochiyo_sama
2012-05-24 08:52 am (UTC)
I am sorry for your loss. From the way things were going, it seems that this is what he wanted--a quick passing at home.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:52 pm (UTC)
Thanks.

Yes, he had the ending he wanted.
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[User Picture]From: veronica_milvus
2012-05-24 09:00 am (UTC)
Condolences to you all. I know how hard you worked for his good life and his good death. How strange that he seemed to die with no real cause. I wish you all peace.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:52 pm (UTC)
Thanks.

He was worn out. By the end nothing was working properly. And then he just stopped.
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[User Picture]From: heleninwales
2012-05-24 09:05 am (UTC)
My condolences to you and especially to Ailz. A death is always sad, but it sounds as though Eric just quietly gave up and was ready to slip away.

I hope Ailz managed to get the final EMA done for the children's lit course. I can't have been easy when there was so much stress over Eric's final illness.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:54 pm (UTC)
Thanks.

Ailz had to stop the course. It was too much for her with everything else that was going on. At least she was spared having to write an essay about PatrickbloodyNess.
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[User Picture]From: setsuled
2012-05-24 10:29 am (UTC)
I'm very sorry for your loss.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:54 pm (UTC)
Thank you
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[User Picture]From: michaleen
2012-05-24 10:41 am (UTC)
Heart-felt condolences to you all and especially to your beloved.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:54 pm (UTC)
Thanks.
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[User Picture]From: huskyteer
2012-05-24 10:45 am (UTC)
Kindest thoughts to all of you. It sounds as though it was quick and peaceful.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:55 pm (UTC)
Thanks.

The end was peaceful. He'd been getting weaker and weaker and then he just quit.
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[User Picture]From: dadi
2012-05-24 11:01 am (UTC)
Kind thoughts to Ailz and you and your MIL. He has suffered a lot, and you all have done so much to make him feel loved and comfortable.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:56 pm (UTC)
Thanks.

I wasn't in favour of having him home, but it turned out to be the right decision in the end.
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[User Picture]From: ashlyme
2012-05-24 11:05 am (UTC)
Condolences to you and Ailz.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:56 pm (UTC)
Thanks.
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[User Picture]From: steepholm
2012-05-24 11:09 am (UTC)
I'm sorry to hear it. Condolences to you all.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:56 pm (UTC)
Thank you.
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[User Picture]From: heatherp8
2012-05-24 11:23 am (UTC)
Transition at home with one's family is the best way to go, and you all made that happen for Eric.
My condolences to all.
*hug*
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:57 pm (UTC)
Thanks.

Yes, he had the death he wanted.
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[User Picture]From: arielstarshadow
2012-05-24 11:47 am (UTC)
He was ready - it just took him a little while to truly know it. I'm glad he was able to be at home. My condolences.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:58 pm (UTC)
Thanks.

He'd been ready for months. As you say it took him a while to know it.
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[User Picture]From: cluegirl
2012-05-24 12:06 pm (UTC)
From what you've said of his last few weeks, it seems he'd be relieved to go. I'm sorry for your family's loss, but glad it was a relatively brief decline.
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 01:59 pm (UTC)
Thanks.

Yes, he had no quality of life towards the end.
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[User Picture]From: faunhaert
2012-05-24 12:13 pm (UTC)
wow that was fast

some times being home
is just the right prescription
to help some one let go.

may you know the best things to say
in this time when needed,
not after they walk away.

even when its expected
its never a good time
to let someone go,

Eric will be missed.
but his love will never die
hugs you all
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[User Picture]From: poliphilo
2012-05-24 02:00 pm (UTC)
Thanks.

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